Love is a complex feeling/emotion that we misunderstand it and confuse it with other emotions. In my life time i have fallen in and out of it, but every time i got to learn that where Love is there is always hurt associated with it, mainly because when that inner person tells you that your partner or your companion have fallen out of love with you, yo don't believe it where as you could save yourself the hurt and by accepting it then. it got me thinking that if love is so sweet then it could actually destroy in the absent of the emotional truth among partners/families/any relationship that you fit in this moment.
So this just hit me that actually there are times when you don't love anyone due to some misunderstandings or even the unsolved conflicts between people.i have learned that when you really love yourself to some kind of degree you able to transmit that required love charge if i may call it in those terms.Loving people is good and it is what we all need just to know once if not more times in a while that we are actually appreciated.
Sometimes i would be overloaded with emotional information towards people i love and care for so deeply that i would not tell them that i love them so much because these words are the heaviest words and i find them hard to just shoot to any being.
I know it is important to tell people that you love them because you never know what could happen to them or you in this moment or a day later and still you have not told them that.i seem to have lost myself in the medium of love because this feeling is one of the most awesome emotions that one can endure.
love is addictive especially when you love and you get the love back in the same intensity as it goes out.you just never get enough of it and the person whom is giving it to you.i would like to consider myself to be a great lover and there is always this moment that i expect,that really never come where one makes a decision to choose a partner that can adore and complement your life and make you feel like a king in jungle.
i expect this adrenaline shot from a kiss which transforms me in to a super being with butterflies all over my stomach, so awesome that you could just travel in space from a second.That's when i know i have found my equal and this i experienced once and i have never found it since that time.i call it LOVE because that day was when i found out that it really exist.
Friday, 15 February 2013
Friday, 8 February 2013
For you!
this year started on a very high note for me and i love that even now i am still enjoying what it has brought me.i met new people this year who just make life worth living and for every moment they are around things just fall into place.really, one thing that i have is appreciation for the Lord because he just have a way to restore things if they were not as great before.
i am thankful for the people that are continuously around me because that feeling last for million times in my heart.i am learning something of great importance which is loving people other than myself and sharing my life with people who appreciate people like me and sometimes it is awesome when you see that you bring happiness in people's lives and to hear them say that they thought of you during the day.for that it just tell you that you are people's person and one should just keep on being humbled and caring towards the people around him.
That's why i love people who are close to me so much because they bring within me something way too great and awesome.i am still trying to figure it myself because for some reason i just get so hyper when everyone is around.it is good to give everybody a chance to experience your company because most times we repel the people that bring laughter and happiness in our lives, lol i give all equal chance and at the end of the conversation if you don't cut it you will just see avoidance as the day progresses.that just means you not awesome enough.
i am playful and that is my nature which actually i thank God for giving me this awesome characteristic which many people would die for.being uptight is just not what i want serious and i don't associate myself with those kinds of personalities !
I am for harmony and peace nothing more or less if that is not there then i just become irritable very very much.
i am thankful for the people that are continuously around me because that feeling last for million times in my heart.i am learning something of great importance which is loving people other than myself and sharing my life with people who appreciate people like me and sometimes it is awesome when you see that you bring happiness in people's lives and to hear them say that they thought of you during the day.for that it just tell you that you are people's person and one should just keep on being humbled and caring towards the people around him.
That's why i love people who are close to me so much because they bring within me something way too great and awesome.i am still trying to figure it myself because for some reason i just get so hyper when everyone is around.it is good to give everybody a chance to experience your company because most times we repel the people that bring laughter and happiness in our lives, lol i give all equal chance and at the end of the conversation if you don't cut it you will just see avoidance as the day progresses.that just means you not awesome enough.
i am playful and that is my nature which actually i thank God for giving me this awesome characteristic which many people would die for.being uptight is just not what i want serious and i don't associate myself with those kinds of personalities !
I am for harmony and peace nothing more or less if that is not there then i just become irritable very very much.
Monday, 4 February 2013
New Year
Compliments of the new year to everyone around the world, may this be an awesome year to you all.first thing first we would like to thank you fro the support you have given this blog even though you don't give any remark we still appreciate the support you are giving us here at the Life happenings you have made this blog what it is by your everyday viewing.
May the new year be a year of remarkable things for everyone and if you need to change your attitude to attain those things be that. the other thing lets make sure that we also take a good care of the people around us at all time, be it family, close friends, our partners in life and everyone who matter that is in your life.and we all know of this month, i am talking about the FEBRUARY BABY! it is the month month of love which means we need to love one another on all levels and also to forgive people that have brought great sorrows in our live because i bet you where ever they are they are having an awesome time than you.mainly because they have moved one with their lives and all that.
So let learn to be strong in the is year and stand up for ourselves because we are better than what people portray us to be out there.and prove to ourselves that we are Worth more than the belittlement that we put ourselves through the years.so now it is the time for people that regarded us as nothing,put us though torture it may be emotional,physical and even spiritually to see us raise to the occassion and become legends in what they belittled us for.
I love people who are proud of themselves and admire what they are because nobody have say in your life and they know that even if someone say something about you,you dont care about that because it is what works for your at the moment and you are the best at it.
happy New Year everybody.#smile all the time even if deep down it hurts like hell!
May the new year be a year of remarkable things for everyone and if you need to change your attitude to attain those things be that. the other thing lets make sure that we also take a good care of the people around us at all time, be it family, close friends, our partners in life and everyone who matter that is in your life.and we all know of this month, i am talking about the FEBRUARY BABY! it is the month month of love which means we need to love one another on all levels and also to forgive people that have brought great sorrows in our live because i bet you where ever they are they are having an awesome time than you.mainly because they have moved one with their lives and all that.
So let learn to be strong in the is year and stand up for ourselves because we are better than what people portray us to be out there.and prove to ourselves that we are Worth more than the belittlement that we put ourselves through the years.so now it is the time for people that regarded us as nothing,put us though torture it may be emotional,physical and even spiritually to see us raise to the occassion and become legends in what they belittled us for.
I love people who are proud of themselves and admire what they are because nobody have say in your life and they know that even if someone say something about you,you dont care about that because it is what works for your at the moment and you are the best at it.
happy New Year everybody.#smile all the time even if deep down it hurts like hell!
Monday, 31 December 2012
Proper Crossover
This year has been a very challenging year on all levels of my life and i think a proper cross-over into 2013 must be done.i went through challenges that i don't even know howto express them because they tough my soul and i would say they sometimes threaten it.But with the help of the Great God i pray everyday i saw rather miraculous life happenings and i am very much thankful for those really.once in a while once need to see change happen in his or her life and having to observe that part of my life happen is humbly very much so!
Over the whole year i have been sulked and moaned,grieved and done all horrible thing that could delay progress in once's life and now i see what i have to do to make sure i never deviate again.so i could say i need to change my attitude to have more enhancement in my heart so i can be at ease.so like i said a proper cross-over must be done.
i will party minimally to take notice of small details that will be occurring tonight and see if i can see something important happen.i love fire work to the max, that's for sure so i will be watching the fire work happen and maybe if i am lucky a personal fire works of my own if you know what i mean.
so from all of us we say Happy New Year and welcome the year 2013!
SEE Y'ALL ON THE OTHER SIDE
Over the whole year i have been sulked and moaned,grieved and done all horrible thing that could delay progress in once's life and now i see what i have to do to make sure i never deviate again.so i could say i need to change my attitude to have more enhancement in my heart so i can be at ease.so like i said a proper cross-over must be done.
i will party minimally to take notice of small details that will be occurring tonight and see if i can see something important happen.i love fire work to the max, that's for sure so i will be watching the fire work happen and maybe if i am lucky a personal fire works of my own if you know what i mean.
so from all of us we say Happy New Year and welcome the year 2013!
SEE Y'ALL ON THE OTHER SIDE
Monday, 24 December 2012
Christmas
this is the time of the year when you come together as a family and friends celebrating love, peace,honour, spirituality and hamony that is withing everyone.remind each other of the blessings God have displayed and granted you throughout the whole year.
Christmas is time to party and enjoy one's self to the core.and this you can achieve fully when you are happy because the holidays are all about happiness.time and time again we make fuss about silly things forgetting to have fun.this time for me for me is the happiest time of the year where i get to be with my family because i spend the whole year without the and when this time is around the corner i can't help myself but to just be content.my heart sparkles like nothing in this world.
Now from life happenings team we would like to wish you a merry christmas and happy new year.may God bless you at all times and grant you all holiday gifts you wish to receive this christmas.HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYONE!
May the new year be a year of creativity to everyone and happiness.
Love,
Hlogi
Christmas is time to party and enjoy one's self to the core.and this you can achieve fully when you are happy because the holidays are all about happiness.time and time again we make fuss about silly things forgetting to have fun.this time for me for me is the happiest time of the year where i get to be with my family because i spend the whole year without the and when this time is around the corner i can't help myself but to just be content.my heart sparkles like nothing in this world.
Now from life happenings team we would like to wish you a merry christmas and happy new year.may God bless you at all times and grant you all holiday gifts you wish to receive this christmas.HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYONE!
May the new year be a year of creativity to everyone and happiness.
Love,
Hlogi
Sunday, 11 November 2012
Pit of memory
There are those people when you think of them your heart just go into emotional shock and you start complaining to God for taking them because they were just too close to your heart then anything in this world.I lost my dad a while ago in 2007 when i was still in high school and sometimes it feels like i have not got over his death because at times i would miss him so much like he went to some place that i will be able to see him in Christmas or New years, overall what i can say is that my Dad was an awesome father who made my life fun from my childhood until i reached my teenage years.at this age that i am in sometime you need that fatherly advise and knowing that its not available when you need it just disappoints.
You listen to people praising their fathers for their awesomeness in their lives and you think of how it would have been if he was here to spend time with you and teach you how to be a man with wisdom and a personality of a king and a father with so much love for everyone that is in one's heart.i have learned how to be my own man with my father in absentia because i grew up alone away from my family and in that time i have learned a great deal about life,also went through challenges that no one have to go through without people of wisdom around them to advise when required.i was able to conquer through them and see light in that manner it only gives you knowledge to be wise enough to advise people that will go through those challenges in life.
I sometimes ask myself how i was able to prosper on my own but i can see that something of greater power have enabled be to carry on fighting the good fight and to not give up in myself.I guess the at this moment the only thing that i have that gives me push is how i remember what my Dad did things and the love he gave and taught me to give to those that are close to my heart and respect that he had for life,because he over came mountainous challenges and he was able to come out on top.i remember his will to live and how his peers respected him and loved him because he was more than a friend to them but a brother that cared for them.
With the way i know myself i know all the qualities that made him the man he was,are there in me because i blend in nicely with my peers and be a brother to many without any intention other than to just care for the people around me.being with people from different backgrounds displaying the teachings of their fathers i am able to learn from them and be a perfect man if i may say so, hanging around elders with adequate wisdom as men and how they handle themselves in crowds and around important people.
But the overall effect that one should have on people is that of good statutes, a humble, caring, respecting and honorable man with class of his own that appreciates everyone for who they are and what they stand for.i learned that pride is a weakness and one looses the respect from people he is among and humbleness is a strength and magnet for people to give all their trust to you.
You listen to people praising their fathers for their awesomeness in their lives and you think of how it would have been if he was here to spend time with you and teach you how to be a man with wisdom and a personality of a king and a father with so much love for everyone that is in one's heart.i have learned how to be my own man with my father in absentia because i grew up alone away from my family and in that time i have learned a great deal about life,also went through challenges that no one have to go through without people of wisdom around them to advise when required.i was able to conquer through them and see light in that manner it only gives you knowledge to be wise enough to advise people that will go through those challenges in life.
I sometimes ask myself how i was able to prosper on my own but i can see that something of greater power have enabled be to carry on fighting the good fight and to not give up in myself.I guess the at this moment the only thing that i have that gives me push is how i remember what my Dad did things and the love he gave and taught me to give to those that are close to my heart and respect that he had for life,because he over came mountainous challenges and he was able to come out on top.i remember his will to live and how his peers respected him and loved him because he was more than a friend to them but a brother that cared for them.
With the way i know myself i know all the qualities that made him the man he was,are there in me because i blend in nicely with my peers and be a brother to many without any intention other than to just care for the people around me.being with people from different backgrounds displaying the teachings of their fathers i am able to learn from them and be a perfect man if i may say so, hanging around elders with adequate wisdom as men and how they handle themselves in crowds and around important people.
But the overall effect that one should have on people is that of good statutes, a humble, caring, respecting and honorable man with class of his own that appreciates everyone for who they are and what they stand for.i learned that pride is a weakness and one looses the respect from people he is among and humbleness is a strength and magnet for people to give all their trust to you.
Friday, 9 November 2012
Keeping sane
My biggest friend and fan in the whole world is me because i can spend the whole day by myself and have those intense conversations and reflect on life and other things that matter to me. this way i put my life on a pedestal looking at what i do daily and if its awesome enough for me, i don't really care much about random people poking around my life and giving input in what they don't know. i do thing in extremely unique manner and having something that does not compliment my system of living.
i sometimes get comment like you are arrogant and selfish which i am not i just do things according to my sense compared to those that confuse me so its very hard to work on someone's idea.i only do things my way because that's the only way i know how to,i don't understand myself sometimes because i always surprise myself in many situations of my life.i know all things are risk to initiate because failure is inevitable in many situations but i choose to do so, that way i would be measuring my strengths and weakness because one can never measure their strength or weakness in things you excel in, in you sleep! there must be a total challenge that way you will know if you suck or can still excel in that aspect.
this is what everyone do because actually one can not live without consulting themselves sometimes, until you come that time when you are emotionally compromised and you need them bffs to step in to give you light.so in other words i am saying that i am not crazy just trust me and me only and there is no crime in doing that.so far in my life there is not much of damage in terms of dreams and my christian life, my faith growing each day which is what is important ultimately.
i sometimes get comment like you are arrogant and selfish which i am not i just do things according to my sense compared to those that confuse me so its very hard to work on someone's idea.i only do things my way because that's the only way i know how to,i don't understand myself sometimes because i always surprise myself in many situations of my life.i know all things are risk to initiate because failure is inevitable in many situations but i choose to do so, that way i would be measuring my strengths and weakness because one can never measure their strength or weakness in things you excel in, in you sleep! there must be a total challenge that way you will know if you suck or can still excel in that aspect.
this is what everyone do because actually one can not live without consulting themselves sometimes, until you come that time when you are emotionally compromised and you need them bffs to step in to give you light.so in other words i am saying that i am not crazy just trust me and me only and there is no crime in doing that.so far in my life there is not much of damage in terms of dreams and my christian life, my faith growing each day which is what is important ultimately.
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